اقتباس المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة sama_Sama مشاهدة المشاركة
We are all talking and most of the replies dis-encouraged moving forward with this engagement; however the problem owner has already made his mind to go on. Personally; I think this is his heart talking not his mind.But because he has an objecting mind; he started this conversation seeking relief. I can see this in his words describing her as a "victim" of her mother's deeds and he has to "save" her

I think since this is his decision we should try helping him in his next step; I think it is ok to move forward with the engagement; but keep in minding every word said here along the engagement period. Assess her again and again; at the end it might be a life-time decision . One more thing; talk to your family; they are close to you; they understand you; and they would be much helpful for you than everyone else; even her and even us over here; and they may see what we all cannot see.

Sorry for using English

Thank you For your concern bout reading all my replys through all this long bages otherwise most of members didnt and they are talking bout stable subject and i dont think they even know that this is special case anyway i remmber every word has been written here but i cannot give up on here and im talking by my mind not my heart sometime she make me feel like savier also she is completly defferent than her mother at least i hope im right but this is life we all will go through this experience

best wishes